To all the young ladies who have betrayed the trust of their boyfriends and jeopardized their relationships by cheating, I suggest you really take a look at yourself and your actions.
In my twenties, I was in two long relationships both lasting 5 years. Even though I wanted to be with them, I also kept wondering what else was out there and if there was better. Instead of being mature and breaking up with them, I would follow with crushes I had on other guys and then manipulate the situation so I would not get caught or at least would not get in trouble. I thought I was getting away with everything because I still had my boyfriend and my fun but little did I know that I had destroyed the relationship already and was just existing in it.
You lose the beauty of the connection you share with your boyfriend when you cheat and everything else begins to disintegrate. What was once special, was now stale without meaning. I ended up breaking up with the relationship and not the person. I still love the guys I was dating but stained the relationship so badly that I could no longer be a part of it.
Think twice before you are unfaithful to your boyfriend because it is effecting far more than you originally think!